When thoughts flow through art

Well i am a very ameture  artist though but i keep my thoughts flowing which reflects in my paintings. I want my thoughts to reach out to people and my ideas to be heard. Basically its my hobby to create woman centric painting . I want to bring out  the thoughts , the feelings and  a mindset of a woman through my painting . It's  not how complicated a woman is but each woman has exceptional qualities which has to be brought out  and the world should see what a woman is capable  of. In a world where women are objectified and be seen as objects to the world I want to bring out the pain and make it more visible for everyone who underestimate a woman's ability. Touching the skies and even beyond it but then women have not their equal status as men. So let's hope to see a better future with realistic society.

Breaking the stereotypes!!!!

So it had to start with the typical stereotypes set by our society  they have assigned us with some social norms which most of us disagree. As times change so is the mindset of an individual change but the stereotypes remains the same!! Well I am not particularly having an opinion about sexism but yes it does exist! I have a very own sexist at my home . Yeah well it is obvious that after getting  married the whole burden of the household falls on the wife and men are supposed  to work or I  ll put it this way they are the breadwinner!! So this recent issue made me write this!!! I want some answers here do all men are happy with their wife's success?  or may be they ll be initially happy but slowly  the insecurities tend to rise and there are constant conflicts. I think these stereotypes have a lot of impact on us and our lives we are not able to digest a fact that MEN ARE EQUALLY "RESPONSIBLE" for the household chores the burden on wife is meant to be shared. But no it is the gender stereotying which has led to this not only this but it is true that  men still think women cannot achieve anything we are like a nobody they easily  say cook at home what else we do !!! Even if we are housewife we have hell a lot of burden on us we take care of everything but neglect ourselves!!! Lack of appreciation  makes us feel useless and disappointed.  Nevertheless women are still attacked by our society  no matter even if we reach the stars there is always a loophole for us in this society.

Mystic blogger!!

Well often we come across celebrity interviews   such as movie celebrity or sports celebrity  or a political celebrity etc . We as an individual think they have achieved a lot in their lives the curiosity makes us binge into such stuffs. But we are unaware that this takes us far away from reality. As for an individual's perception the life goes on normally as it does even these celebs have things which they normally do but they like to be in the limelight seeking unnecessary attention and like to be talk of the town. But today was something different as I began to think which is one of the most popular celeb I should be interviewing? So the answer popped into my head was A mystic blogger yes it is the mystic blogger who can turn our imagination upside down with their blogs. How powerful it is that a little piece of their own lives turn mystic , ethreal but yet convey it  in the most subtle way. This curiosity thrived me to think even more , so much that I found out that that the mystic blogger is none other but it was ME!!! Thinking more further I realised I have to interview my own self! So Who in a busy world have the time to ask few questions to themselves???the answer is No one . None can do that and the hardest part was to figure out how do you question one self? According to the trends now a days its like we are living lives just to scream out on social media pretending something we are not!! Where huge fan following decides the status of a person! And they are often being judged . Always under a scanner. But have we scanned our inner selves ? judged ourselves like how we judge others? This made me think even more and I ended up asking questions to myself as to what am i doing in life? Do i really have a goal to strive hard? Or just living for the heck of it? Well sadly I haven't figured out answers for all . The mystic blogger is in all of us but hardly anyone recognises it.

Postive attitude Is all we need!!!

Our lives have been crazy be it professional or personal. Its a havoc and our lives have become a kind of monotonous but this lifestyle of ours have many loopholes.  It means we are accustomed to it but somewhere we lack that sort of joy that feeling of being peaceful. Life is not about being accustomed to the norms but being zesty and cheerful most of all having right attitude towards life makes life much more simple and easier to live. Having said that importance of having a postive attitude is that we dont have to look or search happiness in others when we adopt the positive attitude in life we can be content and happier than ever . It is easy to say but hard to practice this kind of lifestyle but yes we can have no harm in having dealing  all our problems with this attitude at least we can bring down our stress levels which can create many other problems too. Well our thoughts our gestures can be contagious if we are pessimistic we spread that to others as well same goes for people who are optimistic so you decide whether to be pessimistic and be more vulnerable to the people around you or choose to be optimistic in life and be happy so that you can keep your surroundings happy and healthy.

The BLESSED but not the CHOSEN one

Women though being BLESSED but surprisingly we are not the CHOSEN one lets put it in this way we are never considered to be  equal  to men . Not a feminist  but yet women do have their  own encounters of being considered  too low when compared to men!!!! Being a Woman signifies a hell a lot of sacrifices and added to it all of it goes unnoticed.  Sometimes  we do forget ourselves for everyone but when we take our stand we are named as feminists? Feminism would have not taken birth at all if women  could've got all the respect ,love, dedication and appreciation that we women deserve !!! Apparently it's the whole thought processes of the society which has set these standards for men and women.  In my opinion all of those women who are able to give up everything for the sake of their loved ones is one of the most successful woman because they let others to live their lives before even thinking  about themselves!!!!Women as a whole some are oppressed some have achieved incredible success and some women have given up to the social  norm infact  Women can do a lot more progress than any other if they decide!! This is what I believe in whether is the society or the anyone letting you down you should  know your potential. let not anyone anywhere let us down because  we have immense capabilities where we can achieve what we want . But our society has never given a woman status equal to men becsuse we are still considered as an object but the problem lies in us too we have given up to all of these customs and these customs are quite rigid for us and yes we still remain the BLESSED ones but our society can never let any woman be the CHOSEN one!!!!!

A life of never-ending HOPES!!!!!

So I hail from not so orthodox family from south India but yet we were a little orthodox at times!!! as I grew up I learnt  one thing never to be dependent on anyone ! that  was actually a good thing  which I realised later. Through all this I was  still yet to complete my graduation I was "married". My dreams of becoming an advocate had come to stand still! advocate because my father is a renowned  Advocate  and I had a dream to become like him . well it all happened in a jiffy ! I got married and then I completed  my college ! yes those glorious years of my life came to an end . By the time I realised yes I am married now there came a day I  had to bid goodbye  to my relatives my friends and my life in bangalore . I had come to UAE where my husband and in laws are residing . Though I was super excited about UAE I was worried too because my relatives were here and they had set a mindset for me to have enough to have dreams of coming to dubai. I initially felt that pinch of leaving my family back home trust me it's kinda difficult to just leave everything and I had hopes for a better future I spent nearly 5 freaking years!!!! and trust me it was no less than a roller coaster ride to me though my ups and downs everything didn't make sense to me at all ! there were times I was paranoid about the whole idea of being married it drives me mad at times ! my life just took a 360 degree turn and it all happened I had no clue why I was being treated this way I was  taught that this is how a married lady was supposed to do !! it still didn't make sense to me at all! urrrghhh I was wondering what a waste my life was all these thoughts didn't let me sleep in peace then comes my little girl who gave me reason  to give my life a second chance !!! with a little girl and a supportive husband I have started to realise when we kick those thoughts off your head your world is a better place and ignore those people  who let you down they have no right to point fingers at you when they are not perfect !!!!! yes be positive and we are not getting out of the world alive anyway! but I know it's really difficult to stick to this attitude but I didn't have any other choice to give myself another chance to figure out things set them in place !!!! well I hope I accomplish something so even if have something to tell my children about me I can probably be able to give them the best of all that I can and become an inspiration for them but for me my parents , my brothers and my husband had been the inspiration and they remain inspiration plus a wonderful support . Well, this is life, and indeed I have never-ending hopes !!!